Volunteerism: A Beautiful Exchange

Nov 15, 2016 | UA News

Article by Urban Alliance staff. Photos by UA Staff and Network Participants.

“Authentic relationships with those in need have a way of correcting the we-will-rescue-you mind-set and replacing it with mutual admiration and respect.” (Bob Lupton, Toxic Charity)

One of the biggest motivations for volunteering is to help people who are in need. After all, volunteerism opens the door to contribute to a “feel good” impact in the community and make it a better place. 

But, consider this. Everyone will find themselves in need – whether physical, emotional, social or economical – at some point in their lives. That includes you. Even now you might be on both sides of the service cycle: maybe you are a tutor for someone who can’t read or help out at a food pantry, while last month the volunteer ambulance corps rushed you to the emergency room.

Instead of viewing volunteerism as something done for people who are less fortunate, consider thinking of it as an exchange.

“At Urban Alliance, we work with volunteers of all ages, abilities and backgrounds, who genuinely want to make a difference,” explained Sarah Thompson, Urban Alliance’s Director of Communications & Volunteer Mobilization. “They see a need and want to help, and look to us to make that happen. Before a volunteer gets matched through our volunteer program, UAServe, we challenge them to think about what gifts or talents they have, and we emphasize that all people, including those in need, have strengths.”

Some people are uncomfortable with the idea that a volunteer “benefits” from serving, from the long tradition of seeing volunteerism as a form of charity, based on the principle of selflessness. But, when a volunteer can see the benefits both to and from the recipient of their service, it upholds the dignity of those who are served, and opens the door for authentic relationships to be forged.

“It’s a beautiful thing when volunteers share stories about how much they were blessed by a person they helped through a UAServe volunteer opportunity,” said Thompson. “It’s exciting when they begin to see the people they are serving as Jesus sees them, and who can profoundly impact their lives.”

Volunteering doesn’t just make the world better, it makes people who volunteer better. Studies show that volunteering can boost happiness, health, and a person’s sense of purpose and well-being.

After all, altruism is contagious. Why not start now?

Questions about volunteering through UAServe? Contact Rosa McGuire, Urban Alliance’s Volunteer Manager, at rosa.mcguire@urbanalliance.com or 860.986.6033.

The staff at Urban Alliance are familiar with Pastor Frank because he is a regular attendee to many of the trainings Urban Alliance provides on subjects like domestic violence, addressing childhood trauma, and better counseling techniques. “That’s been so valuable to me to be able to bring that back, not only in my counseling but also in my teaching and preaching ministries, “ shared Termine.

Pastor Frank was also one of the original members of the Micah group, a group of pastors that meets at Urban Alliance to discuss and strategize about challenging issues that face the church today. One of those earlier discussions on justice, incarceration, and returning citizens was particularly memorable. “We all lamented the fact that these men and women were coming out of prison into our churches and just kind of being thrown there,” said Termine, “We could do better than this.” That discussion planted the seeds that eventually led to the creation of Second Chance Churches – an opportunity for churches to provide support and mentoring to returning citizens that continues today.

When we asked Pastor Frank what he would say to another church that was unaware of Urban Alliance, he said, “If you are looking to get out in the community and make a difference in the community, Urban Alliance is a super way to do it. We’re a small church … we can’t do everything. Urban Alliance is a pathway to get our people involved in ministries that are already doing it, doing it well, and just need extra volunteers.”

Pastor Frank Termine’s story embodies many things we are trying to accomplish at Urban Alliance: supporting organizations in the communities they serve with training, resources, and opportunities to make a difference. Pastors and non-profit leaders face a wide range of challenges and, therefore, need a wide range of help and resources. Your support can help turn stories of struggle into stories like you find at Calvary Church.

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